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A couple of weeks ago, I decided to go to the market off campus to buy some foodstuff, since the election was cancelled which means I'll be staying in school. When I was done, I stood by the roadside,hoping I'll see a direct cab to the campus because of the heavy bags I was carrying... Then came this lovely Camry, black to be precise, the one the boys in my class call 'muscle' so the car was parked right by my side, and as the window rolled down,I saw this man-maybe in his late 40's, but for the effect of money he was actually looking clean and 'set'. He smiled at me and offered a ride which I initially thought of declining but with this mad sun and heavy load I was carrying I got into the car and told him am going to the campus, he said he would take me to anywhere am going. So as he drove,he told me that he wasn't going to deceive me that he actually liked me, I smiled at him, he said he would take good care of me and and spoil me rotten. I wanted to tell this man that I wasn't a 'runs' girl, but before I could speak he said he was a married man and he needed a girlfriend that he would date me for as long as we can go. I looked at him surprised, he said he doesn't just want to be picking 'ashewo' every nite, he just want someone he can call his own! His Girlfriend!!!!

 I didn't say anything and when we got to the campus he gave me his card and a sum of 10,000naira to buy credit and call him. And that whenever I need him he would cater for me and whenever he needs me I should do the same...just like that!

He even said dating school boys was a waste of time,that I should consider him. As I alighted and he drove off I was shocked. I wondered how married men now have a legalised way of cheating by having girlfriends. Come to think of it, a girl(ashewo) he meets at the hotel, and he has sex with and pay her off and she never shows up again and the girlfriend who is in his life for as long as possible,that he begins to share his money,time and care between her and the wife, which is better? 

 This married men, have become so funny that having a girlfriend is actually a normal thing to them! When a sick thing becomes normal the whole world is becoming sick. No matter how good he is at playing the game the wife at home suffers and the kids suffer. You can't successfully share attention between two women! You begin to make the wife at home feel like everything is wrong with her, if you want to change the style on bed, the way you guys do things,tell the wife at home instead of running to meet another chick out there. 

Then to the 'so called girlfriends' who date these married men, havnt you thought about the day you become a wife or a mother too! Then your own husband would begin to look for a young fresh blood! 

Karma they say is a B¡tch, she doesn't know how to pity anyone so my dear its gonna come at you too! Some of these married men come with excuses like I married my wife out of pity or my wife doesn't satisfy me anymore. Why don't you stay home and spend sometime with her then you know she would gladly satisfy you..then some grilfriends along the line fall in love, this is rare but it does happen, however to avoid this, never date a married man, and if you didn't know at the beginning, quit it immediately you know. 

Come to think of it, those runs girls are actually better than the girlfriends in some way, atleast they don't ruin the married men's homes unless you don't pay them for their services. So girls before you agree to be his girlfriend think about when you would also become a wife and mother. 

Be very careful ooo, there is a very big differnce between acid and water, this married women ain't joking anymore

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