Friday, May 1, 2015
Ruqoya's Reverie: GUYS! What Ladies Really Want...
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..........Honestly, these days, guys actually needs to study a course on women at school,because most of the ladies in a relationship or marriage complain of some nasty behaviour of you men. Well am going to give you a low down of these complaints and also ways to become a better man!
Now the first thing first... you men lack is 'ROMANCE' gosh! 68% of African men are not romantic, being romantic is not about slamming hard on the bed,but doing little things that would make her blush....
Naija men would say Naija ladies don't love flowers, guys its a big lie. Whether she is black or white she would love flowers, you don't have to wait for VALs day or occasions to send flowers, romantic notes or a box of chocolate to her. Taking her on a surprise lunch can also do the trick. Also you could invite her over to your crib and cook a nice meal, I can assure you that no matter how it tastes, she would eat it and be so glad you attempted it!
Another issue we need to talk about is your S3x life. Most men find it hard to ask their girl what she feels about the way they have s3x, you know»»» the styles and even if their is any new thing she would want to experiment! If you are a rich, caring, nice man and your girl still cheats on you then you need to check how you are doing that thing and make amends. This is also an important issue in marriages,because most couples never even talk about their s3x life!
Also ,you men should learn to send a thank you sms or card to your lady maybe once a year or three times, remind her of how grateful you are of her being in your life! You could even call her to tell her this whenever you remember those days you were still woeing her. If you do this, am very sure she would so much to appreciate the act.
Finally as a man, its okay for you to get jealous for some reasons, but never be too jealous and don't ever do stupid things when you are jealous, treat issues with a mature mind, express your self when you are jealous and angry but do it with your brain,because when you over react to little things like jealousy anger, the respect your lady has for you,would definitely vanish into thin her, do not be that stupid, never act like a high school boy when you are jealous,because this actually irritate women!
»»»this is from the LADIES' Purse!!!
RUQOYA's Reverie is a cognition of Tosin Bamishigbin..........Honestly, these days, guys actually needs to study a course on women at school,because most of the ladies in a relationship or marriage complain of some nasty behaviour of you men. Well am going to give you a low down of these complaints and also ways to become a better man!
Now the first thing first... you men lack is 'ROMANCE' gosh! 68% of African men are not romantic, being romantic is not about slamming hard on the bed,but doing little things that would make her blush....
Naija men would say Naija ladies don't love flowers, guys its a big lie. Whether she is black or white she would love flowers, you don't have to wait for VALs day or occasions to send flowers, romantic notes or a box of chocolate to her. Taking her on a surprise lunch can also do the trick. Also you could invite her over to your crib and cook a nice meal, I can assure you that no matter how it tastes, she would eat it and be so glad you attempted it!
Another issue we need to talk about is your S3x life. Most men find it hard to ask their girl what she feels about the way they have s3x, you know»»» the styles and even if their is any new thing she would want to experiment! If you are a rich, caring, nice man and your girl still cheats on you then you need to check how you are doing that thing and make amends. This is also an important issue in marriages,because most couples never even talk about their s3x life!
Also ,you men should learn to send a thank you sms or card to your lady maybe once a year or three times, remind her of how grateful you are of her being in your life! You could even call her to tell her this whenever you remember those days you were still woeing her. If you do this, am very sure she would so much to appreciate the act.
Finally as a man, its okay for you to get jealous for some reasons, but never be too jealous and don't ever do stupid things when you are jealous, treat issues with a mature mind, express your self when you are jealous and angry but do it with your brain,because when you over react to little things like jealousy anger, the respect your lady has for you,would definitely vanish into thin her, do not be that stupid, never act like a high school boy when you are jealous,because this actually irritate women!
»»»this is from the LADIES' Purse!!!
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One thing i find amusing is how ladies want men to be the giver and not the receiver. Of all you have stated, men need them too, they aren't made of steal na.
ReplyDeleteAnd lastly, let the woman say how she feel about sex. Say it when she wants it and say it when not satisfied and not just allow the tradition becloud her romance. Men love confident women who can freely express themselves about sex. SM-S