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....I was at a friend's crib over the weekend and she suggested we watch a movie,titled "knock on heaven's door" and as I watched the movie I wondered what this world was really turning into,the movie was about domestic violence! This was the third movie on domestic violence I was watching this year.
So I asked my friend a question what exactly was really wrong with these men?
I really get angry when I see men violently abusing their wives but also I ask don't these women notice that the men were actually monsters during their courting stage! I thought they say in yoruba that "efin ni iwa" behaviour is like a smoke,it can't be hidden! So is it that these women actually knew that these men were monsters before marriage but still went ahead with the marriage for the sake of love or is love really blind? Why is it that even most of these victims(the women) don't speak out or even report the case when it starts! Is it fear of the man? shame?the society or the so called love?

Have seen cases of domestic violence in relationships (boyfriend&girlfriend sh¡t) and when I think of it, if he hits you when you are dating, do you actually think he would stop before marriage or do these ladies go into the marriage with the hope of changing the monster to an angel!
I once witnessed a scene where a boyfriend actually flogged his girlfriend from a bus stop to his house as they walked because she got a text from another guy! I stood and watched in pain, anger and sorrow! Why do young girls take such sh¡t? Is this what love really is? How do these men feel when they are actually doing this? Some say most of the men that do this are control freak! If he really is a control freak then he should get a dog that he can tame,and control whenever he wants. There is a difference between a woman, an assets and a toy! You are to love,respect and care for her not beat and control her!
Yes men are naturally possessive,proud and dominating but the way you treat your wife, lover and partner should be different from the way you treat a toy or dog that you own. We have cases of death as a result of domestic violence and it is something that is still going on because most of these ladies or women in both relationships or marriages going through this do not speak out till its too late!
Ladies yes you love him but if he is a monster then you need to leave that relationship, its gonna hurt leaving someone you love but know one thing you can't die from heartbreak except you commit suicide but you can easily die in a relationship with domestic violence!
For the married women, yes! this is Africa, we love our culture and religion but know that no culture or religion supports domestic violence, so if you are scared of divorce after making a mistake of falling for a monster in foil paper instead of a prince in shinning armour, then you are deceiving yourself!
It was easy falling for a monster then you better make it easy to end it! Its really not easy but if you are a female out there going through this

Its high time you PORT away from that relationship or marriage because after your death he would be lucky enough to see another fool that would fall a victim like you!
Save your life and report any form of domestic violence today!

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